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Published on November 19, 2004 By Phoenixboi In Blogging
Well Im back in Sydney for a few days, well Im going back home today.

Since being up here I have had a few revelations about my life and where I want things to go.

* Im going to go back to the gym.

Im not happy with the way my body is looking and feeling right now. I've been wasting alot of time and energy doing useless things (well things that havent made me happy) so I am going to channel this energy into more positive forces in my life. Improving my body image is going to be one of them. Besides making me stronger it will also help my immune system and help my body resist infections. And in it all I will feel better about myself.

* Im going to continue my dream of becoming a natural therapist.

In recent articles Ive written about Reiki and also mentioned Bach Flower Therapy. Well throughout my life I have always been drawn into these therapies and it has always been a career goal of mine to help myself and others in this way. In the past situations have always hindered me from doing this, but my heart feels that this is the way to go so I am going to finally put my ass into gear and get going. So im going to look into specific courses to help me get there.

* Love or Spirituality?<
Since the age of 16 I have always been guided by certain forces which have helped me throughout my life. It is becoming clearer to me that I am not necessarily meant to be in a "long term relationship" in this lifetime. Im not giving up on this idea although I am a little more certain that the people that have come into my life which I have "fallen" for are people who I have helped along the way, and they have helped me. Once this has been worked out they really dont need to be attached to me anymore. Im not saying that if someone comes along Im not going to pursue love with them, just saying that I dont think it is something I should tear myself up for if it doesnt happen. I think there is more to my life than setteling down with someone. I think that through the experiences that I have had in this life I can help alot of people and have alot of people help me as well. So in it all I am going to listen more to my spirit, my soul when making decisions, rather than turn the other way.

* Im getting a pet.

Im going to think about getting myself a companion. I want a little dog to travel this life with me. Any suggestions on what might be a good sort? Im thinking of a Jack Russell or mini foxy. Something small that wont cost me the earth and has a bit of intelligence as well.

So here are a few goals of mine that have been made more clear to me this weekend than in the past. Well I am more determined now than ever before to achieve this. I guess the recent issues with Marcus and my birthday coming up in a few weeks time have sparked this on.


Comments
on Nov 19, 2004

Yay!  You had an epiphany!

You're on the right path, P.  We both are.  And you've helped me more than you know.

I think that a Jack Russell would be perfect for you.  A lot of personality in a little body....they're awesome little dogs. 

Be safe on the trip home....

Love you!

D

on Nov 19, 2004
Yay! You had an epiphany!


Is that what it's called? Well cool! Hmm yeah it's been a huge weekend for me.. Seems like it has been for you as well!

Chat soon.
on Nov 19, 2004
I hope that things continue to improve for you. I'll keep you in my prayers. I think that a dog would be great for you! I'm biased, but I think Maltese are the best (my older girl was actually born in Australia!), but I also think that a Jack Russel would be a great choice. In addition to great spirit, they are extremely intelligent. And very good companions.

Birthday on the horizon, eh? Me too (2 Dec). I'm finding that we have more and more in common the more I get to learn about you. Take care of yourself and have a safe trip home.
on Nov 19, 2004
It's good to have goals. I hope you manage to reach yours.
on Nov 20, 2004
I think that a dog would be great for you! I'm biased, but I think Maltese are the best (my older girl was actually born in Australia!), but I also think that a Jack Russel would be a great choice. In addition to great spirit, they are extremely intelligent. And very good companions.


Hey Chip.. Thankyou! .. Tell me more about Maltese pups.. what kind of temprement do they have? are they high maintanence?

Birthday on the horizon, eh


Yeah mine is on the 18th.. Im going to be 32..
I'm finding that we have more and more in common the more I get to learn about you


Yeah im finding that as well.. It's great to know about you and what you have been through with your life Chip.. I dont always comment in your blog but I always read it. Your one of my favs!. I always look forward to your comments I find them very valuable. So thanks again.
on Nov 20, 2004
It's good to have goals


Thanks Danny... much appreciated.
on Nov 20, 2004
Hey Chip.. Thankyou! .. Tell me more about Maltese pups.. what kind of temprement do they have? are they high maintanence?


Well, I've found that maltese can be a bit yappy, but I think that comes from the people they are around. The male we had in Hawaii did not like men. It was an entire week after he came to our house before I could go about my normal day without him following me around and barking at me until he grew hoarse. But after that, he was my best friend. Just took a little getting used to me. He didn't really like male visitors but he was all talk. The easiest way to calm him was to pick him up and have the visiting man hold him. He calmed right down after that.

As for my girls, they are great. They don't like other dogs very much, but they love people. Umji takes after her father a little and barks at new people sometimes, but she usually quits fairly quickly. Their coats are fairly high maintanence. You either have to brush them daily or plan on a trip to the groomers every 6-8 weeks to keep them cut short. We opt for the frequent haircuts. They are always ready to play or go for a walk, but they are quite happy to lay down with me while I watch TV. They travel well, too. At their size, we can carry them easily in the car. They are also pretty easy to get into hotels on long trips. We also have the option of putting them in small carriers and taking them into the cabin of an aircraft as a carrry on (my sister did this when she flew out to visit us with her maltese). They are truly great companions.

The downsides that I've seen are that they can be quite expensive. Aji was over $1200. We actually financed her! We paid the loan off almost immediately but we didn't have the money at the time we chose her! The puppies we sold went between $500 and $600 each. And that was without registration papers! Another downside is that if they do go outside, they get dirty really easily, as you can probably guess from the white coats. So, baths are frequent. They also get ear infections if you don't keep up with cleaning the ears. You have to pluck ear hair out and they hate that.

All in all, they are great. They are very loyal companions and a true joy to have. I recommend the breed very highly. There's a lot of good info and history here - http://www.malteseonly.com/. I go there a lot to check on stuff. Even if you don't decide on a maltese, there's a lot of good info there that's good for any breed.
on Nov 21, 2004
Hey Chip Great info!!! Thank you so much! Ill check out the website .. and let you know how I go in choosing. Thanks again mate!