NOW it's gone too far!

Published on September 28, 2004 By Phoenixboi In Blogging

Im now extremely pissed off. No Im fucking angry. And really I dont need to be angry but I think HELL has just come on earth. I refer you to an insult I was made by some imbecille on here who for a time has been given the benefit of the doubt by many people on here, even egged on and encouraged by members of this community. He continues to insult people, including the admins of this site and yet he continues to be allowed to blog here. Now it's gone to far when I read comments like this:

A perfect example of what homosexuality and AIDS do to the brain is young Phoenixboi

Now do you think this has gone too far???

Am I wrong in publicly asking for the removal of this character from this site? Yeah I can blacklist him, but when do these public defamatory insulting and DAMN RIGHT hurtful remarks stop? This is getting right to my heart and FUCK it it needs to be dealt with.

Im really pissed off here guys. More than I have been in a long long while.

Comments (Page 3)

WiseFawn

on Sep 29, 2004

I was coming here to tell you that I understand how much words can sometimes hurt. Ther was a time on here that no matter how hard I tried remain tough, I'd have my sister check my blogs first because sometimes people can be so cruel.
I'm still here though. You are still here. I don't know what you guys are planning to do, but I do know that this can be taken way too far.
I don't condone his comment and I told him it was cruel, but I also know that he is not the only one involved. One person says this, another answers it. Names are called, names are called back. This is not the way to go guys.

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

I've been 'expelled from the Maxwellians'. I wonder why?

Your way too superior in everyway to be associated with anyone who is a part of this charade Dharma.

That we're wasting our time, because it's all a scripted performance.

Yeah like it isnt "sick" to have to attack someone who isnt part of that performance and is real. Like if they werent the brunt of this dickhead they wouldnt be doing anything about it. Strange isnt it Dharma when there are people on here who claim to be moral and have values yet when something like this comes up they are all silent, or tell you to get over it. Like you im sick of it.

if we don't, who will? If we don't do it now, how much further will it go? How many more people will be offended and hurt? Where will we finally draw the line?

Where are the people who want this to end or can see the cruelty in this community? Does it show that they just dont care? And that what most people on here write about means jack? Im starting to question the motives behind some peoples words and how shallow or deep they really are. Some seem to me to speak with a forked tongue.

as for an apology...too little, too late.

Exactly Dharma. Your one of the real ones out there. One of the ones who speak with their hearts and mean what they say. You live truely by example and are a true human. One with a beautiful heart, for that your life will be full of blessings. Hugs.

dharmagrl

on Sep 29, 2004

P: thank you for your kind words. I'm not having a very good day today, and what you said really touched me.

You are not alone, and you will never be alone.

dharmagrl

on Sep 29, 2004

You guys mean every word you say, you mean it to hurt, you delight in your cruelty, and this is why you blame the victim when someone gets upset.

Exactamundo.

I deserve what's said about me to an extent, because I play the game. P, bless his little heart, has left dipshit and his clan alone, but they can't seem to return the favor.

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

This is not the way to go guys.

Hey WF no it isnt the way to go. But when is it going to stop? I have no interest in his blog or what he writes about but when its viciously personal attacks like this then what am I supposed to do just completely ignore it laugh it off and say "oh its ok this person isnt real they are just being ironic its all a joke it doesnt matter".??? No not when it hits below the belt like this.

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

And this is whats obvious to me and many others on JU. You guys mean every word you say, you mean it to hurt, you delight in your cruelty, and this is why you blame the victim when someone gets upset.

Im starting to think the same thing LW. It's a sad reflection on this community when people see injustices and know it in their hearts yet cannot stand up and say enough is enough. Apathy is strong in this community like it is sadly in the world. People dont have the balls to stand up when they see things wrong, they go into their hidy holes and wait till its over or pretend it doesnt exist.

LW im giving you a really big hug right now.

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

I'm not having a very good day today, and what you said really touched me.

I had that feeling Dharma I heard it in your voice. I hope your ok. Im here for you too you know. Hugs.

dharmagrl

on Sep 29, 2004

People dont have the balls to stand up when they see things wrong, they go into their hidy holes and wait till its over or pretend it doesnt exist.

Not me. I don't care how futile it may seem to other people, I will stand and I will shout until I am heard. So what if I'm placated? I drew attention to my cause. The more times I do that, the more people will see what's going down...and eventually someone will agree with me and will stand and shout right alongside me.

I'm ok, P, I'm just sad at what's going on here and I miss Dave. We don't see much of each other these days - he's working when I'm sleeping, and I'm working when he's sleeping. Half an hour and a hug is about all I get daily...but at least I get to see him daily, which is more than I got to see him last year.

dharmagrl

on Sep 29, 2004

got an email from Mugz today, outraged over my referring to him as Osama Jr on a thread of WiseFawns. Why is that a terrible thing, when referring to me as Grand Wizard Whip is heartily chuckled at and encouraged? When the hurtful things said to PB earn an "attaboy" from Mugz? When the slams at dharma, Karma, Jill, Poetmom (where is she, btw), Tex, Greywar (whom they refer to as GreyBore on that forum) and even Gene all get the Mugz stamp of approval....how are we to see him as anything other than a hater?

If it walks like a duck, looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck......

As for sick...making fun of the holocaust, making fun of AIDS victims and bullying people (because that's basically what this is) is what's sick.

dharmagrl

on Sep 29, 2004

his assertion that you and others are "encouraged by my vicious leadership."

Hahahahahah!!!!! ROFL!!!! That's hilarious!!!!!!!!

Like I said, if it walks like a duck.....

Phoenixboi

on Sep 30, 2004

PB only got his feelings hurt because I pointed him to petes thread.

This is all very interesting because as I stated above previously .. I went to his thread of my own accord.. I saw it on the forums.. it had nothing to do with LW.. nothing at all!! Muggaz seems to be deluded or is claiming to be psychic.

Oh just an aside...Did I tell you guys I was going to Melbourne soon on a holiday LW and Dharma?? I spend a great deal of time in Melbourne when it gets warmer with my family thats there. I love Melbourne.

PB....im sorry. Do ya still wuv me, you old turd-burglar you?

LW you had nothing to do with it.. Honey I luv you

And Im aware of the continuing attempt that this insensitive low life is doing to try and stir me up but in his attempt he is actually digging himself deeper in his own shit. For his information.. there is no "authority" I have reported him to..that is too easy. You really dont want to piss this boi off, and im pissed off. I wonder how this persons emotions are feeling right now. If they are actually happy in their lives. If their dreams at night are making them uncomfortable. If they can sense someone breathing down their neck, twitching their ear.... hmm I wonder how their energy levels are.

Phoenixboi

on Sep 30, 2004

id be a little wary if i lived that close to you, PB...i surely would. (besides, i hear you pack a mean handbag, darlin.)

There is no such thing as time or distance LW..

And love the poem!

Take me with youuuuuuuuuuuuuu, its getting cold here!

Your all packed LW arent you? Come with me...

We'd have alot of fun with the locals.

Insightful

on Sep 30, 2004

Personal attacks should not be tolerated. Lets face it, nobody is liked by everybody. But that shouldn't mean that they are permitted to speuw their hateful venom in a public forum.

I wonder how professional journalist's handle negative email? At least it's not made available to the public in an open forum.

Phoenixboi

on Oct 02, 2004

But that shouldn't mean that they are permitted to speuw their hateful venom in a public forum.

Exactly I agree insigtful.. thanks for your comments.

Phoenixboi

on Oct 02, 2004

and it just keeps on going on and on and on..
i wonder if he secretly is in love with me..

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