NOW it's gone too far!

Published on September 28, 2004 By Phoenixboi In Blogging

Im now extremely pissed off. No Im fucking angry. And really I dont need to be angry but I think HELL has just come on earth. I refer you to an insult I was made by some imbecille on here who for a time has been given the benefit of the doubt by many people on here, even egged on and encouraged by members of this community. He continues to insult people, including the admins of this site and yet he continues to be allowed to blog here. Now it's gone to far when I read comments like this:

A perfect example of what homosexuality and AIDS do to the brain is young Phoenixboi

Now do you think this has gone too far???

Am I wrong in publicly asking for the removal of this character from this site? Yeah I can blacklist him, but when do these public defamatory insulting and DAMN RIGHT hurtful remarks stop? This is getting right to my heart and FUCK it it needs to be dealt with.

Im really pissed off here guys. More than I have been in a long long while.

Comments (Page 2)

dharmagrl

on Sep 28, 2004

is the handbag thing something British I just don't get?

I was wondering when someone would ask that....hehe.

No, it's not. I would tell you what it is, but silly eyes are watching and it would just be something else for them to take the piss out of. If you really want to know, email me and I'll tell.

dharmagrl

on Sep 28, 2004

Trina's got the right idea...

greywar

on Sep 28, 2004

ok, clear enough for me I suppose.

Texas Wahine

on Sep 28, 2004

PB: Just wanted to chime in to let you know that I am sorry that you have been pulled into the ravenous black pit of insanity . . . what was said about you was wrong and hurtful. But considering all you have endured, I know that you have the strength to not allow it to cut you. You shouldn't have to put up with this crap . . . but because you are a strong man of character, I know that you can.

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

Put the handbag away, you'll only be swinging at thin air anyway

Ill just keep it handy close by..

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

because you are a strong man of character, I know that you can.

Thanks Texas. i had to get offline this morning when I wrote this .. so I went and spent some time with a couple of mates of mine and had a nice day.

Karma will take its process.

dharmagrl

on Sep 29, 2004

I'm glad that you're feeling better....and I did what I said I was going to do. Now we'll just have to wait......

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

I did what I said I was going to do. Now we'll just have to wait......

thank you so much Dharma. You really helped me out alot today. There are real people on here, and you have proven that to me today, real people with real hearts. Thank you with big hugs!!

Muggaz

on Sep 29, 2004

Not only that .. following that comment was encouragement by Muggaz! .. That's really nice to see a fellow australian support this guys actions. Thanks Muggaz. Really you just show your heart and true character.

I hope you have seen my true heart and character PB - do you think I was forum whoring when I welcomed you back and when I make dialogue with you? I didn't realise you would take the comment so seriously, and I am really sorry that it has offended you, I acknowledge it may have been across the line... but I can assure you, If Sir Peter were aware of the great offense you have taken to this, I think he will apologise... of course, I can't speak for him, nor should I have to, but I can speak for myself, and I really am sorry I come across that way to you.

Sir Peter is joking... there are others on these forums who would happily see all homosexuals gassed, those are the ones you should worry about mate, if you can learn to co-exist with people like that - Sir Peter is a cakewalk.

BAM!!!

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

I can speak for myself, and I really am sorry I come across that way to you.

Im glad u see it Muggaz I really am.

Sir Peter were aware of the great offense you have taken to this, I think he will apologise... of course, I can't speak for him,

U seem to be doing that alot Muggaz. Is there something we should know about??

Sir Peter is joking

Thats not a joke. Nor should it ever be seen as one. That's what im really over. That this guy can make all manner of remarks about things that really shouldnt be joked about , yet he still does it and people think its funny and people encourage. It needs to stop because "fictional" "ironical" or not there is a person behind the remarks and this person is going to be in deep shit if he continues to do it. Joking can only go so far. It gets tired after a while. And then it gets and is getting hurtful.

So im through with it. Things are in process now which will not be reversed. He went too far and ive taken action.

Muggaz

on Sep 29, 2004

So im through with it. Things are in process now which will not be reversed. He went too far and ive taken action.

What kind of action exactly? have you hired the mafia to take out his crack SAS troops, and then kill victor and get into the estate in England, and then kill Sir Peter whilst he is mounting his favorite colonial prostitute?

U seem to be doing that alot Muggaz. Is there something we should know about??

There is something you should know about - Sir Peter is fictional - shock value, read a book about Howard Stern or something, same thing... the only thing you should know is that I consider it my job to remind people of this when they take it too seriously - I dont want to see anyone get hurt mate, I just wish people would excersise a little self restraint! You know exactly what Sir Peter is about these days, why the devil did you read anything he wrote? was it because LW linked it, and encouraged you to poke fun at Sir Peter? was she looking for another fight that she could get her paws into? maybe, who knows... I can only observe the situtaion as I see it.

When you get tired of a TV program, you change the channel... read a different blog mate... don't go to Sir Peter's articles.

BAM!!!

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

What kind of action exactly?

Thats something im not blogging about. This person whoever it is behind this character will find out soon enough.

There is something you should know about - Sir Peter is fictional - shock value

Someone is typing the words behind the character right? When a person fictional or not starts attacking me about my illness then they will have to understand what they have done. Im over you or anyone else telling me they are ficitional. Because this character has an author and this author is sick.

just wish people would excersise a little self restraint

Tell that to your mate.

why the devil did you read anything he wrote?

Well actually because it came up on the forums, which is public and when I click on the forums it doesnt show to me on the sidebar who wrote it so I came apon it by accident really. It had nothing to do with LW, shes not the badguy here Muggaz. LW actually is an extremely intelligent and soulful person who I admire very much for her frankness and openess about her life, she doesnt need to make one up unlike some.

The thing is there is real people behind these blogs, people who have feelings and live their lives the best ways they can. Honest people. Who believe in values. We put up nicknames and hope for some annonymity but most people end up friends, good friends who rely on each other and support each other. And Ive found that here. I hope you have too, but it saddens me when I see people like you who I think has some intelligence encouraging this character..especially when he attacks others on here. If they are ficitonal let them stick to their fictional lives and not interfere or attack others on here who are real. Especially those who have the balls to be honest about themselves.

read a different blog mate... don't go to Sir Peter's articles.

Like I said i came across it by accident (even though i dont believe in accidentals..things happen for a reason) and like Ive said before on another thread I wont be going back.

dharmagrl

on Sep 29, 2004

read a different blog mate... don't go to Sir Peter's articles.

It's simply not a queston of not reading his blog though. We're all fair game as far as he's concerned, whether we go to his blog or not. We can not mention his name, not associate ourselves with him, but still he carries on his litany of cruelty. That's what this particular comment was - cruel, and mean-spirited. LW has put up with it for ages, because she had the balls to be honest about her past. She digs at him on a regular basis, so I suppose in a way she asks for it - but P hasn't. He did not deserve to have that comment made about him, he did not deserve to be drug into the melee.

As for 'it was a joke'....that got really old and really transparent a long time ago. It's the same old story - he says things to piss people off, then when they get pissed off he says it was a joke and if we didn't get it we have no sense of humor.

Phoenixboi

on Sep 29, 2004

I didnt join JU to be the brunt of hatred or to be attacked or to have to feel this way at all. Neither im sure did LW or anyone else who has been attacked on here.

This site is thankfully a free one. The owner has done a great service here by letting people from all over use this site. Ive used other blogs in the past and this one far outweighs any other that is available. Im really thankful that I have this space to use as a tool mostly for therapy to let out what is inside me that needs to be let out. Some of the articles Ive written are just flippant stuff to fill in time, but in there is alot of my spirit. And I consider it sacred.

There doesnt need to be this hatred. There is too much of it in the world already and people are suffering enough for it. One of the most important lessons that was taught by the Buddha and by all major religions is that we shouldnt cause other people or any other living thing to suffer. And that's because eventually it will come back onto us, 100 fold.

it was a joke and if we didn't get it we have no sense of humor.

I cant find humour in other peoples suffering or pain. It's a perfect example of what is wrong in this world, that is causing so much suffering for alot of people.

HIV affects millions around the world, it doesnt discriminate with kids or women or men. HIV affects the brain, it caused me to have 2 strokes. Thankfully without any damage. I just spent two weeks in hospital terrified that I was going to die, I had catscans of the brain, EEGS, and was poked at and proded by doctors I had no idea who they were or what they were doing. I was medicated with pethadene to take away the pain i was feeling. Im currently on no medication because of the side effects the last medication was having on my body and emotions.

Do you think I find this funny? Do you think this should be the brunt of

Sir Peter is joking

????

dharmagrl

on Sep 29, 2004

Hehe...I've been 'expelled from the Maxwellians'. I wonder why?

I imagine that this article is being watched by people who are wondering why we bother. Why we say that we're going to take (have taken) action against a parody, a character created by an unseen person. That we're wasting our time, because it's all a scripted performance.

My response that is this: if we don't, who will? If we don't do it now, how much further will it go? How many more people will be offended and hurt? Where will we finally draw the line?

Oh, and as for an apology...too little, too late.

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